An Old Friend Called


From: Teh, Ian
Sent: Thursday, 4 April 2013 8:09 AM
To: [ ] ([ ]@yahoo.com)
Subject: Thanks – appreciate the contact

Hi [ ]

Thank you for your call last night, I appreciate that. Please be assured what has happened in recent months had nothing to do with you. You (and [ ]) are someone I knew from Malaysia so I guess that makes us old friends. Nothing has changed on that front.

Returniing to lifegate is out of the question for me. I cant be in a church where I am restrained from serving. As long as I don’t understand Tham Fuan’s statement that I only acknowledge the church leadership when it suited me, I can never serve freely. That statement means I am not to be trusted, that I am a fake. How can I remain in a church where the pastor accused me of that?

Tham Fuan has “apologised”  – it may sound ironic but that is taking the easy way out. What I needed wasn’t an apology, but understanding. One needs to spend time talking through things like that. Not a quickly blurted apology. I have said that to him before. But that is ok now because I no longer expect anything from him. He has shown nothing to suggest he is capable of, or wishes to, talk through that. I also no longer want to listen to him. No one should be expected to wait indefinitely – if the months following the event didn’t see any interest on his part, I should “cut my losses” and leave an organisation headed by someone like him. He has been that way from day one – uncommunicative and unresponsive. When it comes to personal relationships, being uncommunicative and unresponsive is a guarantee for failure.

Theresa and I continue to look for a church to call home. That has been very difficult for the reasons I said to you last night. But at least there is rationale for hope. Staying in lifegate does not provide that, as long as Tham Fuan carries on in the same way. There is nothing to suggest he won’t.

Thanks again [ ].

 Ian

Join the crowd I guess…


I was told there was to be another one of those powwows’ last night. Also, missing the congregational life especially over the Easter weekend, made me think again about where to go this weekend. Tress suggested we should go to Edge again. We’ve not been there for what… 4 weeks now? These two events made me go on an early start this week, in looking for a church.

My quest for a new home continues. I have to say it has started to affect me in my walk with the Lord. Proceeding in this journey alone, has never been something I believe in. Yet, looking for a community to make the pilgrim has become a bit of a pain. I am starting to think maybe it is easier to just give up for a while – go do what many (most?) Aussies do on weekends and skip this church thing.

I’m inclined to say “thanks, Tham Fuan” one more time before ending this quest for now. I know this is down to my choosing from this point on. He has driven me out of my home, but he hasn’t caused – not directly anyway – this tiredness and frustration in looking for a new home. I no longer know what to look for and how to keep going.

Bad weather or bad science?


Ordinarily, when someone reads an article in a major daily warning of more extreme weather in the future, one would just say yeah, weather’s changing – global warming is bad. An article like this certainly can create that sentiment.

If you see the source of this story however, you’d think maybe things arent so bad after all. The Australian Climate Commission sounds very official and therefore, believeable, right? If like me you read stuff other than major dailies however, things aren’t so straight forward.

I wonder what happens when an official government organisation loses credibility – or at least be challeneged for having been inconsistent, and therefore inviting to be discredited.

Both articles can be accessed here and here, with extracts reproduced below.

Victoria to suffer extreme weather, warn climate scientists

  • by: Mark Dunn
  • From: Herald Sun
  • April 03, 2013 12:00AM

 
VICTORIA will be hard hit by extreme weather events in coming decades, says an Australian Climate Commission report.

It says temperatures are already hitting record levels originally not thought likely until 2030.

“The southeast of Australia, including many of our largest centres, stands out as being at increased risk from many extreme weather events – heatwaves, bushfires, heavy rainfall and sea-level rise,” states the report, titled The Critical Decade, Extreme Weather.

Key food-growing regions in southeast and southwest Australia would also face more drought, says the federal government report, written by professors Will Steffen, Lesley Hughes and David Karoly.

Their review found that sea levels had risen 20cm since the 1800s and were rising at 3mm a year, creating higher storm surges; record surface water temperatures had occurred off Australia’s east coast for the past three years; the annual number of record hot days had doubled since the 1960s, and ecosystems were under threat.

“The Australian heatwave of the summer of 2012-2013 was exceptional for its extent and for its intensity (and) affected 70 per cent of Australia,” it states.

“Temperature records were set in every state and territory and the national average daily temperature reached levels never previously observed.”

And the countervailing piece:

More spin from the Climate Commission

Andrew Bolt

–, Wednesday, April, 03, 2013, (7:21am)

 

2011: the Climate Commission says global warming can’t be blamed for the drought:


Andrew Bolt: “We have also been told by this Government that the recent drought in the Murray-Darling Basin was caused by global warming, again your own report says there is nothing unusual about that drought either is that true?”

Professor Will Steffen: “We’ve had very severe droughts before so again we cannot attribute this drought statistically to climate change….”

2013: the Climate Commission blames global warming for the drought:

Australia has long had a highly variable climate of droughts and heavy rains, and this pattern is likely to continue into the future. However, climate change is likely to increase the severity of these extreme weather events…

The millennium drought of 1997-2009 was one of Australia’s most severe droughts, with far-reaching impacts on agricultural production, urban water supplies and natural ecosystems.

This outfit is a scandal.

 

Salt and Light?


Church lunches where families enjoy each others’ company. Dinners at leaders’ and pastors’ homes where families have a great night of food and conversations. Church camps where everyone got to know other church people a lot better. Church committees and working bees all creating and maintaining a little – almost closed – community.

All wonderful little events. All happenings which I love and cherish. Except, what do they do to the communities around us and their most telling needs?

Light and salt of the earth? How does the church for example, make a difference to the scenario painted by this article? See these extracts:

  • Bega killer Leslie Alfred Camilleri, we got only dot-points: No father at home. Dysfunctional mother. On the streets of Kings Cross at 10. Add drugs, and what did you expect from him? Kindness?
  • “I see a growing underclass of young people who, from the day of their births, have never had a hope of turning into respectable citizens. “Raised in an environment of alcohol and illicit drug use, violence, unemployment and poverty, they are accustomed to these things by the time they are teenagers.”It is a problem that won’t go away and one that governments must confront as best they can.” – Retired Chief Judge (Tasmania) Ewan Crawford
  • What can a few more social workers fix when more than 630,000 families don’t have mum or dad living with them?
  • What can a mere law do when porn flows into every computer in almost every dark home? When beer is celebrated more on TV than faith?
  • Australians last year reported 237,000 cases of suspected child abuse and neglect.
  • Justice Paul Coghlan sentencing a 21-year-old who’d deliberately rammed his car into three people he didn’t like.

“Your first (court) appearance was when you were 12 years old. I think you have about 19 discrete court appearances for about 140 charges. Your parents divorced, having separated when you were six years of age, you do not have contact with your mother . . . Both of your parents have repartnered at some stage and you did not get on with either of those partners. At various times, you have lived with either your mother or father, but your father was very violent towards you and your mother provided little or no discipline. You came under the care of the Department of Human Services and thereafter lived in a number of residential units.”

  • Same with a Geelong man jailed for helping a mate beat to death an unemployed drunk caught defecating again on the floors of the hotel they all shared.
  • Justice Robert Osborn:

“Your father was a truck driver and heavy drinker. He was abusive both to your mother and to yourself. “Your mother also drank and by the time you were aged five or six all of the children in the family had been placed in Allambie. Thereafter you . . . became a ward of the state . . .At that time, you felt keenly that your family had abandoned you as a child. You were sexually abused . . . by two paternal uncles and, partly, it seems in reaction to this, you commenced using alcohol to a serious extent when you were 14.”

  • In February, another man was jailed for murdering a former friend he’d accused of having years earlier molested his daughter. He’d shot the man soon after his son accused him of having molested his other daughter. He is now 69, but still raised his childhood to help explain his crimes.
  • Justice Geoffrey Nettle

“You were born the eldest of eight children to a returned serviceman and a psychologically infirm mother . . . After the war, he spent considerable time in and out of hospital and he became an alcoholic. As a result, he was sometimes violent towards you. You were also sexually abused as a child. You (said) that, between the ages of nine and 12, you were cajoled into episodes of mutual masturbation with a friend of your father . . .”

  • Such damaged criminals often leave their own children littered around.
  • Justice Terry Forrest sentencing a 36-year-old drug user who helped a friend kill an older man they were robbing:

“You have three children aged about 15, 12 and 10. You have had no contact with them since about 2007.”

  • We are not just breeding an underclass for this generation, but the next. Help change our culture now, or pay later.

Churches in Melbourne should consider if Matthew 25 speaks in this context.

The Final Judgment

31 “When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will sit on his glorious throne. 32 Before him will be gathered all the nations, and he will separate people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33 And he will place the sheep on his right, but the goats on the left. 34 Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, 36 I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ 37 Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? 38 And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? 39 And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ 40 And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers,[f] you did it to me.’

41 “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42 For I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not welcome me, naked and you did not clothe me, sick and in prison and you did not visit me.’ 44 Then they also will answer, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not minister to you?’ 45 Then he will answer them, saying, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to me.’ 46 And these will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.”

Great Weekend. Not So Great Easter.


Vintage Car Merimbula

Tress and I were at Merimbula over the Easter weekend and only came back this arvo, We caught a vintage car show, but other than that we rested a lot. We read, walked around Lake Merimbula, slept, watched tv, made coffee in the unit we rented, and basically just rested.

On the way home we passed many cars who have obviously been camping. I said to Tress I couldn’t understand church leaders – chair even – who chose to go camping over the Easter weekend, especially when  baptism will be carried out and it would do so much for the initiation of new members into the community of faith to have leaders of the community present and lending support. Instead, the focus on upholding the Aussie tradition of doing one’s own thing and going away camping takes precedence. Drifting along in the ways of the world around us, instead of making decisions which enhance life in a community of faith, seems the preferred ways – even of leaders – of church here in Melbourne.

I wish I had a community I still belonged to. I certainly wished I was in church for Good Friday and Easter, remembering and celebrating with a community of faith that is my family, and it just upsets me that the one I left behind has leadership that seems content to be swept along by prevailing community practices, not treasuring the family and just doing their own thing.

It was a beautiful weekend, with great rest and beautiful weather. But it was probably one of the worst Easters I’ve had for a long time.

Maybe the pics of the beautiful cars can do something to soothe that pain a little bit.

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Bill on Julia


I was reading this over lunch and I think it is an important piece in defining the Gillard reign. May that end soon.

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March 28, 2013

Bill Kelty

The ALP must forgo the politics of division and seize the chance to inspire pride in its achievements.

The politics of the next few months is no longer about the result of the next election. It is about the future of the ALP. Political parties are resilient, can defy the odds and rebuild quickly. However, the essence of that rebuilding begins with a clarity of purpose as to what the party stands for and its point of difference with its competitor.

When the last two warriors of the Hawke/Keating era are sacked or resign you know the situation is serious, very serious. Simon Crean and Martin Ferguson have given their entire lives to the labour movement, have mentored the Prime Minister and have been the banner carriers for loyalty.

The polls tell us that the party is headed for a devastating defeat, the divisions are on show and the accumulated wisdom of John Faulkner, Crean, Kim Carr and Ferguson has been sidelined.

Advertisement Politics can be made more difficult than it really is. There are three essential tenets. First, take responsibility; second, reject the ideas that distract, divide and discount the nation; and third, argue to the last breath for the ideas and ideals that make the nation a better place. Honesty will, nearly always, win over duplicity.

The starting point is responsibility. It is too easy to blame the opposition, the media or Kevin Rudd. The latter may have been an irritant, but in the big picture of recent politics he was a mosquito. The government’s problems do not stem from Rudd’s removal but the means and justification for doing it.

The result was that the electorate did not give the ALP the right to govern alone. In the process of forming government, concessions were made that had lasting significance. When a sensible policy of pricing carbon at international levels became a tax, it subverted trust in a government that promised it would not introduce such a tax. When the umbilical cord of trust between the governed and those who govern is broken, it cannot be easily restored.

When the mining tax was touted as a negotiating coup, somebody forgot to tell us about state royalties. These are errors of judgment and explanation.

All that was necessary was for the government to argue that the policies are natural extensions of pre-existing policies – the international pricing of crude oil and the petroleum resources tax. The tax will prove effective, but will have left behind a reputation for incompetence.

The two most recent prime ministers have sought from caucus a special right to select their own ministers, but in both cases, the cabinet process has been allowed to be frittered away. The media reform was moderate, but the process was flawed. A jackboot approach to discussions and timing would not have been permitted if the proper process of cabinet had been followed.

 

Once responsibility is accepted, the ALP must reject the ideas and processes that have no home in the party. A Labor Party that cultivates division, or taxes superannuation retrospectively, or cannot justify deficits, or makes regional tours presidential visitations, or reinvents class warfare, or steals the rhetoric of Pauline Hanson on migrants, or embraces the Pacific refugee solution of John Howard, or attacks single mothers and narrows its base to a mythical group of blue-collar workers, cannot win an election.

On the other hand, an ALP that demonstrates its commitment to future generations through education, health care, fair wages, superannuation, the environment and protection of the most vulnerable is capable of winning.

We need a new script for the ALP about this nation that begins with the premise that the nation should not be written down or diminished. A country proud of itself, comfortable that it has plotted a different course over past generations and the opportunities it has created.

The government should start with the benefit of strong economic credentials, measured by low unemployment, inflation and interest rates. Living standards have improved in difficult times and the rest of the world sometimes marvels at the model for success created in this country. The debt level by comparison with most other nations is small. We are in this position partly because of collective government and Reserve Bank management that opened the economy and because of the decisive action of the Rudd government on the global financial crisis. We need to win the debate that economic success is not measured by the size of the surplus.

But running a deficit does not imply that governments can in some magical ways find the capacity for free goods. The essential truth of what Crean and Ferguson were arguing is that a society must create wealth before it can be distributed. A productive and adaptive nation knows the vital role of businesses, both large and small, who invest in the country.

It knows that businesses often risk their home and life savings to make those investments. Business is vital, but people are not just economic units. It also knows that there is an essential role of unions in protecting the interests of workers and acting as agents for constructive change. If real wages and superannuation and conditions of work are to be improved, increases in productive capacity will be many times more important than fights over shares of the cake.

From these twin principles – a country writ large and consensus about our capacity to fund improvement in living standards – the ALP has an opportunity to define its priorities and commitments.

A simplified tax system for small business, investments in education, improvements in superannuation and healthcare, the development of an effective infrastructure, investment market, the adoption of the Crean blueprint for regional development (which institutionalises the role of local governments and regional leaders), and the generation of its own environmental credentials will give the party a policy base for the future.

There will be imposts and changes to tax necessary to produce these outcomes. The employees must know that their negotiated wage outcomes will contain superannuation, the minimum wage will contain a component in recognition of superannuation improvement. The Medicare levy may be required to help fund the National Disability Insurance Scheme. The government should not underestimate the common sense and compassion of the Australian people.

Politics is ultimately a choice between parties. The points of difference based on personality are peripheral and the real differences need to be based on principles.

The Labor Party will need to demonstrate it is the culture and philosophy that counts. In that regard Whitlam, Hawke and Keating have provided the party with a solid foundation. Crean and Ferguson have helped build those foundations.

The task for Julia Gillard is to build on them, not put them at risk.

Bill Kelty was secretary of the ACTU from 1983 until 2000 and a key influence during the Hawke and Keating governments.

Read more: http://www.theage.com.au/opinion/politics/a-new-script-needed-for-labor-and-the-nation-20130327-2gufy.html#ixzz2OnIIWDiH

Easter Away?…


For the first time in years, we are thinking to go away for the Good Friday and Easter Sunday weekend. A major event in the church calendar, we have always stuck around at this time for church matters. Typically there will be Good Friday services and Easter Sunday baptisms with a big lunch to follow.

Back in Malaysia there were also Maundy Thursday prayer meetings as well as sunrise services on Easter Sunday. Special Sunday school events abound too. Too many things happen at this time for us to be planning to get away.

All this busy-ness at this time was underpinned – anchored – by a fundamentally stable relationship with the local church. Absent this relationship it becomes a bit detached and these activities suddenly dissipate in terms of significance or importance. No doubt the Lord’s suffering, death and resurrection continues to be significant and important but the commemoration and celebration are meaningful only in the context of a community.

We don’t presently have that community and so we’re thinking of plans to go away. At least let the getaway – the road trip, the hideaway, the beach perhaps, the discovery of cafes, restaurants and wineries maybe – pale as they are in comparison, hopefully they will be salves for the ugly bits.

Media Quirks


I was flipping through the new look tabloid version of The Age newspaper at the tea room. As usual, I like the letters to the editor section so I went straight to those pages.

A lady from South Australia wrote a featured letter, which had a go at Tony Abbott for not being as brave as Julia Gillard. Apparently Julia was brave for showing up in the ABC programs of Q&A and Fran Kelly.

I suppose The Age would consider such a letter worth a feature letter status. And I suppose a letter which thought Abbott a coward for not showing up on Q&A and Fran Kelly’s radio show, could be taken seriously only in The Age.

On the other end of the spectrum, I think Julia Gillard can be termed a coward for not showing up in Andrew Bolt‘s tv show on Channel 10. After all, a show which regularly featured Peter Costello could hardly be a domain the poor imitation would want to front up.

Media bias is a given. That ABC would give the Left and Labor a constant stream of free kicks is a given.

I cringed but I accepted the lady’s right to vent her feelings. I cringed but I cannot accept how a supposedly serious and mainstream media like The Age can have that letter as a feature letter. Media bias may be a given but such poor judgment is cringe worthy and unacceptable. In my mind anyway.

Help and change – only for those who want it for themselves


Tress and I watched a documentary on Afghanistan last night. I wonder now why the west bothers. The Taliban was always going to find a nest to hatch more perpetrators of violence in the name of Islam and in the case of Afghanistan, it looks as though they (the Taliban) are just sitting it out, waiting for the Americans and their allies to wear themselves and their families (and nations at home) out and go home. David Kilcullen was an expert interviewed and he was one of the most insightful and practical commentator who sounded like he was a true expert who really understood not just the issues at hand but the macro and even historical context of the conflict.

I remarked to Tress, as we watched the Americans struggling to train local Afghans to be police many of whom appear to be either under heavy drug influence (marijuana and opium were plentiful) or just too tribal and uninterested in modern policing methods, that the west is really wasting their time because you can’t help someone who refuses to be helped. The Afghans appear likely to slip into their old ways the moment the western forces leave, and the Taliban would return and re-impose their presence and will on the people. Or maybe they don’t see a problem – it is even likely they perceive the Americans and their western allied to be the problem.

A similar thread flowed through this morning’s news items. Most of them dealt with Julia Gillard’s new team. Lightweight, inexperienced, unskilled politicians who’re the Steven Bradbury’s of politics after the purging of the Rudd supporters. Still, she blames everyone for her own lack of judgment and political skills – everyone but herself. If she doesn’t see herself as the problem, she would just soldier on. Never mind the country suffers as a result – her own perception of how best to manage the situation overrides the interests of the country.

Without the objectivity of identifying the problem, and especially without the honesty to tell the people you are supposed to serve that there is a problem, self-interest carries the day. If one doesn’t see the need to change or for help, no change will take place. Status quo – for better or for worse, will be the order of the day.

Need a good book…


It was a beautiful weekend, weather wise. Tress and I slept in a little, and after a quick round of dry cleaning drop offs etc, came back to home pulled coffee and toasts, after which we attacked the garden work. Our friendly app the weatherzone had predicted rain by about 12pm so we didnt waste anytime.

We sort of finished a bit before 1pm, and then gave the little fella a good bath. We rewarded ourselves at Madam Kwong with a late lunch, where we met a couple of old friends from ICC Church. Fancy calling ICC friends that way…

We then went and returned a DVD and I picked up a bean bag. We went home and filled the bag up and I tried it out in front of the telly and promptly went to sleep! A little after 4.30pm we decided to go watch a movie. I had thoroughly had fun with Die Hard 4.0 so the latest edition of this franchise sounded fun. It wasnt to be and it was a complete turkey. So if you’re thinking of giving Bruce Willis another chance with the latest Die Hard offering, save yourself some money, time and pain – avoid this one.

There was no game on with the world cup qualifying games and strangely no AFL games either with season openers all featuring inter-state teams. So we had a quiet night, wondering which church to go to the next morning.

Bridge Church in Doncaster has sort of become the default place for us and there are so many matters to be sorted out in my head that presently, I sort of just gave up, dumped all of  them in the “later” category and zoned out. Maybe that’s what helped because the service felt better yesterday. Later, I guess…

Cheng Hsian, Jason and I (and wives of course) then met up in Doncaster for lunch and coffee and had good conversations. We then went home and walked the little fella, before settling down for the new week ahead.

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This morning I was just glancing through the Herald Sun and saw this para:

Mr Rudd was given a rockstar reception at a black tie charity event in Queensland, while Ms Gillard hosted an egg hunt with radio shock jock Kyle Sandilands – a man who has fended off accusations of misogyny – as the Easter Bunny.

I wonder how long this crippled and ineffectual government would last. Some are predicting (more in hope I guess) that it would be gone by the time parliament resumes for the budget presentation in May.

Unfortunately, until I find a more gripping book (having finished Sonia Sotomayor‘s memoir the week before) than Gary Neville‘s “Red”, I’d have more time to read the papers …