This is the third property we have had a serious go at. We should know by tonight, if our quest has ended and we can start doing something else on Saturdays…
Day: February 23, 2006
Mahathir lied: the Malaysian Government DID pay
Malaysia Today: MT-news: Mahathir lied: the Malaysian Government DID pay
I dont think anyone was surprised at this.
Unfortunately, the credibility of our otherwise great PM has long been lost. It is largely on account of his administration that I chose to leave my country of birth and a place I still love and would like to call home.
I dont know how he would deal with all these wrongs before he returns to his maker. I know we all have our sins and griefs to bear but surely his is as great as that of anyone I know!
Does he deal with it by continuing to lie to both himself and everyone else, that these things never happened and everyone else was wrong? Has he successfully shut down that still small voice which must have shrilled out at him in his quieter moments?
I must remember to pray for him more…
Growing Old – A very touching poem
Regards
Ian
From: Ian Teh [mailto:ian@sharrockpitman.com.au]
Sent: Thursday, 23 February 2006 9:24 AM
To: ‘kathy’
Subject: RE: A very touching poem
That was beautiful, Kathy. Thanks
I know I shouldn’t be saying this but there are mornings I wake up and realise I’m on the “wrong” side of forties (I used to think in terms of thirties), especially if I wake up to some aches or sores which prevent me from doing my morning runs, as this past week has been.
This poem reminds me to take things in the correct spirit and perspective.
Think I will blog this…
Regards
Ian
From: kathy [mailto:kathy@intranet.net.my]
Sent: Wednesday, 22 February 2006 5:44 PM
To: Undisclosed-Recipient:;
Subject: A very touching poem
have read this a few times before but never knew the author’s name…. now I can share this with you… to acknowledge her and hope that through her poem, we may try to be more understanding towards our old folks……one day we will be in her shoes (esp me… a life expectancy test tells me I’m going to be 97!! Hope I won’t be crabby but will be happily surrounded by my huge family….)
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SOME GREAT WORDS OF WISDOM FROM LISA MORISON – well worth a read and reflection.
When an old lady died in the geriatric ward of a small hospital near
Dundee, Scotland, it was believed that she had nothing left of any value.
Later, when the nurses were going through her meager possessions, they found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that
copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital. One nurse took her copy to Ireland. The old lady’s sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the North Ireland Association for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on her simple, but eloquent, poem. And this little old Scottish lady, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this "anonymous" poem winging across the Internet:
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Crabby Old Woman
What do you see, nurses?
What do you see?
What are you thinking
When you’re looking at me?
A crabby old woman,
Not very wise,
Uncertain of habit,
With faraway eyes?
Who dribbles her food
And makes no reply
When you say in a loud voice,
"I do wish you’d try!"
Who seems not to notice
The things that you do,
And forever is losing
A stocking or shoe?
Who, resisting or not,
Lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding,
The long day to fill?
Is that what you’re thinking?
Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse,
You’re not looking at me.
I’ll tell you who I am
As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding,
As I eat at your will.
I’m a small child of ten
With a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters,
Who love one another.
A young girl of sixteen
With wings on her feet
Dreaming that soon now
A lover she’ll meet.
A bride soon at twenty,
My heart gives a leap,
Remembering the vows
That I promised to keep
At twenty-five now,
I have young of my own,
Who need me to guide
And a secure happy home.
A woman of thirty,
My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other
With ties that should last.
At forty, my young sons
Have grown and are gone,
But my man’s beside me
To see I don’t mourn.
At fifty once more,
Babies play round my knee,
Again we know children,
My loved one and me.
Dark days are upon me,
My husband is dead,
I look at the future,
I shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing
Young of their own,
And I think of the years
And the love that I’ve known.
I’m now an old woman
And nature is cruel;
‘Tis jest to make old age
Look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles,
Grace and vigour depart,
There is now a stone
Where I once had a heart.
But inside this old carcass
A young girl still dwells,
And now and again,
My battered heart swells.
I remember the joys,
I remember the pain,
And I’m loving and living
Life over again.
I think of the years
All too few, gone too fast,
And accept the stark fact
That nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people,
Open and see,
Not a crabby old woman;
Look closer . . . see ME!!
Remember this poem when you next meet an old person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within………..we will all, one
day, be there, too!