After my long boozy lunch earlier in the arvo with colleagues, Tress and I went to a young couple’s home for a Korean styled dinner. They have been part of a cell in church with us, for maybe 4 years now and we have become good friends. They wanted to catch up with us to talk about church and I felt I owed them an explanation. So with just the four of us (along with their little girl) I took some time to explain to them the basis of my decision. I have taken all steps to ensure there was nothing left vague or unexplained.